It's been a while since we had some time to sit down and really talk, hasn't it? In this cozy and intimate setting, why don't we take this chance to have one more drink and enjoy a bit more time together?
"Let's get another drink!" along with 100 cards designed based on the emotional intelligence (EQ) communication structure from Harvard University and scientific studies on enhancing intimacy in relationships. This "dinner" will help us learn to calmly listen to each other, reminiscing about our early days together and looking forward to what's to come.
Well then, I guess let's order another drink!
When we’re in love, we might show the different versions of ourselves and choose to see only certain versions of our beloved. Therefore, these questions will help you learn to see things in our beloved’s perspectives, accept and move forward together.
With 80 questions categorized into 3 levels—Sparkling, Red Wine, and On the Rocks—within "Let's Get Another Drink?", you'll address the difficult topics and learn to work on it together: There are questions diving into tough conversations like sex, finances, life perspectives... paired with Action cards for us to calmly address each challenge together!
Let's not just concentrate on the stories, let's also tune into the feelings and emotions behind them. Now, reflect: Are you surprised by their answers? Have you uncovered new aspects of them? Let's delve deeper into these discoveries together.
Learning to understand and empathize with others will help you build trust, create a safe atmosphere, and encourage your partner to share more actively and openly.
To gently go through your love journey, let’s go with the flow from “Sparkling - Red Wine - On the Rocks”
Draw a question and read it out loud. The question will be for yourself or the person you're with. For some questions, draw an Action card and follow its guidance before you answer. Also, let’s fill the Love Coupons to plan for our next dates more exciting so that every time we meet, it's like falling in love all over again.
Be open and honest to share your thoughts with your significant other!
In some questions, draw an Action card and follow its guidance before you answer.
Let’s fill the Love Coupons to plan for our next dates more exciting so that every time we meet, it's like falling in love all over again.
When you are the one asking, practice deep listening skills. Listen to empathize, to understand, without any judgment or prejudice.
Ask follow-up questions to gain deeper understanding. For example, ask them to describe a specific situation in detail, inquire about their thoughts or feelings at that time, and ask why? (why did they make that choice? why did they feel that way?…). These questions also help them understand themselves better.
Then it's your turn, share authentically. Let your emotions flow and thoughts unfold. This transparency deepens our mutual understanding and brings us closer.
"This deck of cards truly evokes a lot of emotions for me and everyone participating in the game. We've connected on a deeper emotional level, understood each other better, and had unforgettable moments."
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